1. Profiles That Look Too Perfect
If the profile photo looks like it belongs in a fashion magazine, be cautious. Scammers often use stock images or stolen social media photos.
Safety tip: Reverse image search the profile picture (Google Lens, TinEye) to see if it appears elsewhere.
2. Rushing to Move Off the Platform
A genuine user will usually be fine chatting on the site until you’re comfortable. If someone pushes you to switch to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email right away, it’s a red flag.
Safety tip: Keep communication on the dating platform until you trust the person.
3. Sudden Requests for Money
This is the classic online dating scam. Whether it’s for a “medical emergency” or “travel costs to meet you,” never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
Safety tip: Legitimate matches won’t ask for financial help.
4. Avoiding Video Calls
If they always have an excuse not to video chat, they may not be who they claim to be.
Safety tip: Schedule a short video call early in the conversation to confirm identity.
5. Inconsistent or Vague Answers
Scammers often have limited details about “their life” because it’s all made up. They may dodge questions or give answers that don’t add up.
Safety tip: Ask specific questions and look for consistency in their story.
How to Stay Safe on Dating Sites in 2025
- Verify Profiles: Choose platforms with built-in verification tools (selfie + ID check).
- Use Strong Privacy Settings: Limit personal information in your profile.
- Report Suspicious Behavior: Use the platform’s report feature to alert moderators.
- Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, it probably is.
💡 Pro Tip for Site Owners:
Include this guide in your new user onboarding flow. A small “Stay Safe” button linking to this checklist can build trust and reduce scam incidents.